Sense of Self
In life images are all around us. Everywhere we look; magazines, TV, movies, billboards, the internet, we are bombarded with images, images that try to tell us how to look, act, and feel. These images portray what the companies who put them out believe is perfection. This “perfection” however, is for most, an unattainable goal. When people see the images of perfection that are thrown at us every day they begin to think that the way they are is not good enough; so they buy products the supposedly will make them “perfect” only to find out that there is a different aspect of themselves that can be better. No matter how much they do to achieve the image of perfection there will always be a new image just down the road that they don’t fit and must try to achieve.
One perfect example of perfection that everyone has at one time or another experienced can be found in the simple childhood fairytale of Cinderella. Everyone knows the story but how often do we look at some of the subtle messages it sends to young impressionable minds when they first hear it. Both stepsisters for example, are described as having “beautiful and fair features” even though they are wicked at heart. When the king holds a festival to find his son a wife he asks that all the “beautiful young girls” attend. What about the girls who aren’t “beautiful”? Are they not worthy of being princesses because they don’t look as pretty as the others? This sends a terrible message to kids at a young age that above all else in life you must be “beautiful”; if you are not then you are not as good as everyone else.
While most of the images we see each day are marketing images that do nothing but destroy our sense of self, I do believe that there are images in our lives that do the opposite. Parents and role models are excellent images that show those who look up to them how to act and teach them that what really matters is what is inside a person.
While writing this blog, I couldn’t help but notice an image I see every day; the famous picture of Muhammad Ali standing over Sonny Liston after knocking him out in the first minuet of the first round of a fight that sits above my computer. This image doesn’t make me feel like I must be a famous athlete or be in incredible shape to feel worth in my life but instead reminds me that by accepting myself for who I am and by working hard I can accomplish anything I set my mind to.
